Share Your Losses!

You know you shouldn’t overlook the possibility that life is planned in just such a way as to cause you grievance when you least expect it.    It happens often that, at the worst possible moment, another loss occurs, one we hadn’t anticipated or prepared for.

This is a miracle sometimes, a true test of our strength.  Oh yes, most of us would have preferred to read the book, but then Life’s lessons are a book, aren’t they? One that we open to a new page every day to see what troubles or delights will be ours this time.      

Share your losses. They are real. Tell someone you hurt. There’s no shame.  The shame is only in keeping all that pain to yourself.  You will not heal that way. Let it out. Find a way and let it out. And the next time your world collides with itself, you’ll be ready.